Your prospective employer, a recruiter, or hiring manager is not your best buddy and not your confidant.
Yes, these people want to know about you, your background and your achievements, but they don’t need to know all about it!
Many people writing their own resumes think everything needs to be explored, without knowing that every revelation can be an act of self-sabotage. So let’s look at items regularly included on do-it-yourself resumes that should be shared only with your best friend.
- Reasons for leaving. People still regularly include this potentially self-sabotaging information on resumes as incredible as it may sound. Frankly, it doesn’t matter whether you were made redundant, you chose to resign before the company went broke (imagine how this would look if you were the Chief Financial Officer), or you had a difference of opinion with the supervisor. It doesn’t matter what you write or how innocent you think it is. Someone will twist the meaning and it won’t be in your favour. The resume is not the place for this information.
- Salary Information: Another inclusion in do-it-yourself resumes that can stop your candidacy in its tracks. Too high a figure and you can be discounted from roles before you even get to prove your worth; too low a figure and you have lessened your value for roles paying more. (Note: some advertisements ask you to include salary information: if that’s the case, put in a figure range wide enough to cover all bases and include in the cover letter, never the resume).
- Personal Information: Unless you are a model or an actress the employer does not need to know your height and weight. The employer also does not need to know your religion, your birthday or your place of birth (at least in Australia and the US. Check the requirements of other countries particularly in Asia and surrounds). Similarly the decision maker is not interested in a dissertation on your feelings about existentialism, your adoration of your new puppy, or that you love walking along the beach with the wind in your hair and digging your toes in the sand. Unless sand toe-digging is your occupation and you are an expert in the field, you sound like a Miss World contestant.
- Clichés: We have talked about this before and it cannot be reinforced enough. Scrap the clichés unless you want the reader of your resume to roll around laughing at the thought of yet another candidate patting himself on the back for having: Excellent interpersonal and communication skills, a solid work ethic and a strong team spirit, as well as being hard working and reliable.
- Personal situations: Not too long ago I saw a resume that began the current employment with this: “Secured role as Office Manager, after leaving my husband after a brutal nine years of marriage. Relocated with children to a different area and despite threats, calls to police and continued violent episodes, settled into the new role quickly. With daily beatings no longer part of my daily life, I successfully committed myself to the job, learning many new skills”. This provides personal information no-one needs to know. It also gives the decision maker the opportunity to pre-judge the candidate based on his or her personal beliefs and perhaps, potentially be concerned for the wellbeing of existing staff. Madness.
Resume self-sabotage goes on every day and most people don’t even know why their applications were ignored. Are you one of them?

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